Have you ever been speaking to someone and noticed mid conversation that they’re not really listening? Their focus is elsewhere. You’re speaking, but they’re not getting the message.

Depending on your relationship with them, you may feel comfortable enough to say, “You’re not listening to me,” or maybe you'd ask, “Did you hear what I just said?” But if it’s a polite conversation with someone you don’t know well, you may just cut it short and walk away.

Unfortunately, as a chamber pro, when a member isn’t listening, you likely don’t know because what you’re trying to tell them is coming through email, the newsletter, or a text message. You can’t gauge body language. With digital communications, you can only assume they’re listening. But sometimes they aren’t.

What makes this most difficult is that, unlike your spouse or your children, they don’t realize they’re not listening. But at some point, your members are going to become painfully aware of how little they know about what the chamber can do for their business.

When this happens, they’ll feel left out, and they might even get angry about it. Maybe you’ve had a member say, “How did I not know about this?” after an event passed that they really wanted to attend.

This likely frustrates you because you spend a good part of your day communicating with members and letting them know what’s coming down the line. So, to be called out for not being a good communicator stings and can feel like failure.

The fix in these cases is not louder marketing. It’s a layered, trackable system that meets members where they actually are, sets expectations early, and gives you a clean way to re-engage the people who keep missing the memo. And it’s a conversation we had recently in the Chamber Pros Community on Facebook.

Start by Resetting the Unspoken Deal

A lot of member frustration is misplaced. They missed your email so they accuse you of not sending it often enough or not marketing to your full ability.

Mason Hutton, Executive Director of the Huber Heights Chamber of Commerce, put it plainly: “We have taken the approach of putting the responsibility back on the member.”

That’s not harsh. That’s honest. A chamber can open doors, spotlight opportunities, and make introductions. But it can’t “sell” a member’s business for them, and it shouldn’t pretend it can.

Executive Director Joy Hutter’s communication model for the Greater Crofton Chamber of Commerce is supportive and real: “I’m here to support them… I am a phone call away,” and “what they get out of the Chamber really depends on what they put into it.”

This matters because member communication isn’t just event reminders. It’s also how membership works.

Katrina Fundora, Director of Membership Growth for the St. John's County Chamber of Commerce, nailed the misconception when she reminded us how many people think, “If you simply join the chamber, you’re guaranteed immediate business.”

Here’s the first communication strategy: say the quiet part out loud, early and often.

Build a short “membership reality check” into orientation, onboarding emails, and your welcome call:

  • What success looks like in the first 30, 60, and 90 days
  • What the member needs to do (show up, respond, engage, tell you what they need).
  • What the chamber will do (connect, advocate, promote opportunities, make warm intros).

When expectations are clear, your news and event messages stop feeling like noise and start feeling like tools.

Use a Layered “Echo System,” Not a Single Megaphone

If you rely on one channel, you are guaranteed to miss people. They’re busy, inboxes are chaos, and algorithms don’t care about your event attendance.

So you must create helpful "echoes."

Think of your communication like tossing a pebble into a pond. One ripple is an email. Real reach is multiple ripples that push out, building on one another, finally reaching the target.

Here’s a practical layered system that blends traditional and digital:

1. Email is the backbone, but not the whole body

Angie Woker Hibben of the Oswego Area Chamber of Commerce shared a classic scenario: a member complains they “weren’t getting emails” months in. Her fix is simple and strong: tell them upfront what to expect, and ask them to flag issues immediately.

Set a predictable cadence such as:

  • Weekly “Monday Mix” (events, deadlines, top news)
  • Midweek “What’s Coming” for the next 7–10 days
  • Same-day reminder for major events (short, punchy, one CTA)


2. Phone calls are not old-school, they’re high-trust

Nicole Jo recommends check-in calls because feedback lands better before a nonrenewal.

Calls also do something email can’t: they create a relationship moment.

Use calls strategically:

  • New member: 14 days after joining.
  • Event no-shows: a friendly “still want invites?” reset
  • Quiet member: quarterly quick check-ins.


3. Snail mail still wins attention because it’s rare now

Yes, physical mail costs money. But it also gets opened.

Use it sparingly for:

  • New member welcome packet (or postcard if you give them a packet at the new member onboarding event).
  • Personal invite to a flagship event.
  • Quarterly “Top 10 things you can use right now” postcard.


4. Face-to-face outreach is the gold standard

Jim Bombeck form the Shenango Valley Chamber of Commerce shared a simple, powerful tactic: “My board chair and I do a roadshow… we go see our members at their place.”

Even if you can’t do it monthly, build a rotating “member visit day” where staff or ambassadors do 2–4 pop-ins.


5. Social media is a support channel, not a concierge service

Caitlyn Dame from the Hopkins County Regional Chamber of Commerce shared that a member dropped because the chamber wasn’t sharing their posts daily.

This is where expectations protect your team.

Say it clearly:

  • “Tag us when it matters.”
  • “We can’t monitor every post, every day.”
  • “We’ll amplify key wins and chamber-related posts.”

Then back it up with a simple process: a monthly “Share With Us” form where members can submit announcements, hiring needs, wins, and events.

Track Interactions Like It’s Your Job

If you don’t track engagement, you can’t fix reach.

Start with the basics:

  • Website page visits for your events calendar (if you have it).
  • Attendance (who registered but didn’t show).
  • Event registrations (by member and category).
  • Click-through rates (by topic).
  • Email open rates (by segment).

The key here is to spot patterns.

Example: If a member never opens newsletters but regularly attends events, your email isn’t the problem. Your subject lines might be.

If a member opens everything but never clicks, your calls-to-action might be unclear.

If a member does neither, they’re a re-engagement candidate.

Reach Out to the “Quiet Ones” Before They Disappear

Carrie Stuart, President of the Gettysburg & Adams County Chamber, described a long-term, multi-touch onboarding approach with “emails, calls, mailings and personal visits when possible.”

Here’s a simple “quiet member” playbook:

  • Identify members who have not opened the last 6–8 emails
  • Send a personal check-in email (not a newsletter)
  • If no response, call
  • If no response, mail a short postcard: “We’re here. Want fewer emails or different topics?”
  • Update their preferences and keep going

Your message: we work for you, even when you’re slammed.

Carrie also makes an important point: chambers serve both active and passive members, but participation increases exposure. Don’t scold them into attending. Offer options that match how they operate and what they’re interested in. Their schedule may not allow them to attend events, but by keeping in touch with them, you’re showing you noticed they weren’t there. And everyone likes to be noticed.

Resend Emails, But Do It the Smart Way

Resends are underrated. Half your audience did not see your first send because of timing, inbox clutter, or the classic “I’ll read this later” lie we all tell ourselves.

Example of a solid resend strategy:

• Resend to non-openers 48–72 hours later.

• Change the subject line and the preview text.

• Keep the body mostly the same, but tighten the top.

• Add one clear CTA.


Example subject line shifts:

First send: “February Events + Deadlines”

Resend: “Quick heads up: Registration closes soon”


Resends are not spam when the content is genuinely useful and the audience opted in. They’re service.

Make It Easy for Members to Self-Correct

If members are missing messages, look to reduce friction.

Add these “tiny fixes” everywhere:

• A “How to get chamber updates” section on your website.

• A one-click “Update your email preferences” link in every newsletter.

• A reminder at events: “If you’re not getting the Monday email, tell us today.”

• Place a QR code to your newsletter signup in your office, at events, and beyond.

And keep repeating the core truth, in a friendly way.

Gail Lofing, CEO of The Campbell County Chamber of Commerce, says they tell members up front: “If they are expecting us to bring business to their door, that won’t happen,” and they’ll “get more out of their membership if they engage.”

That’s a roadmap to success.

The Goal Is More Clarity

You don’t need to become a media company. Instead:

1, Set expectations early.

2. Use multiple channels with intention.

3. Track engagement.

4. Personally re-engage the quiet members.

5. Resend strategically so good information doesn’t die in an inbox.

When your communication works, your events fill up, your advocacy gets louder, your members stop feeling left out, and they start feeling like they’re in.

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